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================================================================>第30封信
日期:18 Aug 1997 15:06
主題:(Love Match)一位對你心儀的朋友
寄件者:LoveMatch
收件者:LoveMatch Member
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來自: OK

您好 :

很高興能傳 e-mail 給您 !
敝人是歐克 ,今年 31 歲 ,大學畢業 ,家住台北縣 ,目前服務於工程顧
問公司 .興趣是打 ,聽音樂 ,郊遊 .希望能收到您的 e-mail ,能有機會
與您做朋友 !

thanks!
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  這封信其實還不錯,可是Jonathan的來信完全把我的心思吸引了去!

 

 

===================================================>Jonathan的第4封信
日期:18 Aug 1997 23:04
主題:
寄件者:Jonathan Chan H.K.
收件者:<[email protected]>
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Dear Kath :)

Now I can take more time to write you email :)
After a whole week's busy. I was going to had a camping at one of
HongKong's Island.
And sleep for 2 days... :P

Good.. you looks like a cute girl!!:) I really very want to meet
you in person :)

My current company is ×× music (HK). Which company you
working at? :) Don't tell me you also working at×× Taiwan!! :)
If so.. it must funny them :)

I was study Information Engineering at Taiwan.It's same as computer
engineering.Many people as me.."Are you from Taiwan?" It's funny.
In fact I was born in China, my family moved to HK when I was 5.
And I was growth up at here. Just went to Taiwan to study my Degree
course.

In the beginning, I was planned to working in Taiwan for about 2
to 3 years, to grain more working experience just back HK. But
unfortunatly,my parents want me back.....
I was working 6 months of assistant lecturer in my school before
I back HK.

The present one is my 3rd Job. I was working there for about 14months.
Due to my major, I just can work in computer related job. But most
of commercial companies need computer staffs. So that it's quite
easy to got job after I back HK.
I was back HK at 1994 Jan.

My temper is quit good. but sometime if I feel bad, I will like to
發牢騷 to my friends. But now in HK, it's hard to find a really real friend... feel so sad. People here not like Taiwan's friends.
I like Listen music (classical, pop music, New age, piano solo),
if the melody is "fast" It's will more perfect :P  If I listen some
slow melody's music, it will made me feel sad or no mood....

> 我的性格該算是不錯的吧!很好脾氣的,

Good I like this kind of temper's girl :)

> 有什麼不愉快,找個人發發牢騷啦!吃一頓大餐也不錯!再不然睡一覺,
> 隔天起來就忘記了!

I like eat much too!! :) I am fat also. Don't worry hehe :P

> 我還喜歡看美國職棒與美式足球,對於一個女生而言,很稀奇吧!不過,
> 我都碰不到可以跟我討論的人!:-( 還有好多說不完呢!

:) You are funny :) I can sure if we meet, there will have no any
boring time. :p

> 你又是個什麼樣性格的人呢?

Normally, my character is kind, a bit quite but if meet some interest
topic, I can speak continually :)When I have free time, I like play
computer (PC games, Internet, download new software, WWW), reading
(News, computer related, novel, money investment) at home. 
Sometime I will go out with my friends to pub and drink so soft drink and then talking about our jobs, old classmates news and women.

My job is in charge of whole company regional office computer
systems.Sometime it's interesting, but sometime it's tight work.
Most of time is busy on work load.

> 我為了學習上網,跟我的電腦整整抗戰了二個星期才成功呢!
> 你為什麼會想在網路上交友呢?

Due to my working environment, it's hard for me to know girls...
so that I try to visit Love match to find some girls who I want to
make friend with. I like know some a bit fat's girls for long time.
And you are the first girl who reply me :) I feel so happy about
that. Thanks Kath!:)

> 你又為什麼會選中我呢?

On the other hand, from your records,you want to have a email friend
and short term lover.I feel your point of view is good. I have fall
in love for 3 times before. Before that, I am quit tradition guy,
I though after I love a girl, she will love me forever, but,, they
all destroy my dream..

So that, now I want to make friend with a girl who want to have friend
for me and some time can my lover.. How is your short term lover's
定義? :) I am a open mind's guy. How about you ? hmm.. I want to
find a girl who can be my good friend, and we are sex partners too.
When time's growth, then just decide what will we be. To tell the
truth, I am guy who need sex much, so that I am trying to find
this kind of friend. Up to that moment, I still have no other this
kind of girl friend.

> 你嘗試過幾次通信呢?

I try to send out about 10 email before.And I got about 2 of their
reply. but it seems they don't want to have a Long distance's
friendship. they quit communication to me.

> 可是真的談到碰面的問題,我又會有點不知該如何是好,:-{

It's ok, I don't like to force my friend to do what they don't like
or don't feel comfort. :)

Hope my this letter won't scare you ... Hope we can using mature
heart to face about "sex" and "Friendship". :)

Jonathan.

My Homepage: http://www.speednet.net/~hkchan
           : http://www.geocities.com/Tokyo/Flats/8834
My Permenant Email address: [email protected]
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上
封
信
是
8/13
寄
給
我
的
。 

  好長的一封信喔!原來他休息了兩天,才會遲了幾天寫信給我。

  他說我look like a cute girl,算他有眼光囉!我本來就很很可愛的;
可是他想見我,我看還是不要吧!

  他也在唱片公司耶!真好!我原本還有點擔心他是那種穿著西裝、打著領
帶的上班族呢!因為我一向都是T恤、牛仔褲,自在慣了,我很難想像把自己
跟那樣不同調的人放在一個畫面裡。他既然在唱片公司工作,應該也是屬於比
較easy的那一種吧!

  他還是在台灣唸的大學呢!那他對台灣也應該滿認識的囉!忽然覺得對他 多了幾分親近的感覺,因為這樣我的工作及環境對他才不會好像很難理解,否 則就會很有隔閡了。

  喜歡他把自己介紹得很詳細,喜歡他對我的信的回應,喜歡他在小地方的 坦率,像他說他跟朋友會聊工作啦、老同學啦、還有女人,很真實的感覺。因 為我跟女性朋友談的話題也是工作、生活、還有男人呀!

  我總算知道為什麼他上封信會問我對short term lover的看法了,原來當
初在登錄LOVE MATCH時,有4個選項(Email筆友、伴遊、短暫浪漫、正式交往
),我選的是Email筆友與短暫浪漫,難怪他這麼問了!

  他談過3次戀愛呀!?不知道為什麼結束的!?不過,聽他說以前他是傳
統的男生,以為愛一個人可以天長地久,可是現在卻夢想破滅了!很難得聽到
男生這樣說自己的想法,好像可以感受到他受傷的心情。

  他現在希望找尋的是一個可以是朋友、也可以是情人的女生,希望她能做 他的好朋友、還有性伴侶,然後再經歷時間去決定將來的關係。其實,我對於 男女關係的進展也是類似的看法,我覺得倆個人在心理跟生理都要彼此需要, 這樣的關係才會長久吧!

  最好玩的是他說他是個滿需要"性"的人,他這樣說的時候並不會讓我厭惡 ,反而讓我覺得老實得可愛!可能是因為已經一點一點去認識這個人,也可能 是因為是用英文表達吧!anyway,我喜歡他的老實說。